The reason I ask this question is because many guys make mistakes when it comes to seduction. They think seduction starts once they’re alone with a woman.
The truth is seduction starts long before you’re in private with a girl. In fact, it starts during your initial conversation. If you can be seductive from the moment you meet a woman, then you can quickly build attraction and rapport. The end result is you’ll find it easier to make things more intimate with a woman.
In this article, you’ll learn about 4 specific techniques you MUST use when you first meet a woman. By implementing these secrets, you’ll find it’ll be easy to put her under your seductive spell.
Seduction Technique #1- Use an interesting and funny opener
To be honest, the first thing you say to a woman sets the tone of the ENTIRE conversation. As a result, you need to use a funny and interesting opener that’ll attract her attention
Your goal when you first approach a woman is get a woman talking and make her interested in you. Typically you can accomplish this with an opener that asks her opinion on something. All you have to do is craft an opener which will pique her interest.
The opener can be anything from asking an opinion on your friend’s girlfriend trouble all the way to getting her opinion on which type of cologne you use. As long as you do this in a funny manner, you’ll at least get her talking.
Seduction Technique #2- Use the cocky/funny technique
Now once you’re getting her to talk, you should implement what’s widely known as the cocky/funny technique. The idea behind this attitude is act slightly arrogant while finding little things where you can tease her.
While it might seem counterintuitive, cocky/funny is a great technique because you’re using humor to establish yourself as an alpha male. And this is done in a non-aggressive way without acting like a jerk.
As long as she’s laughing at the things you’re saying, cocky/funny is a great way to quickly build attraction and put her under your seductive spell.
Seduction Technique #3- Use questions to find interesting things about her
Repeat after me…
“I will NOT ask her boring questions!”
The logic behind this statement is a lot of guys ask women specific questions which do nothing to build attraction. Typically these ‘interview like’ questions can include asking about her job or what she likes to do.
Instead of asking these questions, you should focus the conversation on talking about funny topics. You can accomplish by using provocative questions which make her think.
This can include:
“What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done”
“How would you spend a million dollars”
“How much money would it take for you to sleep with a random stranger”
While these questions may seem a bit childish, there are great for building attraction and getting to know her better.
Seduction Technique #4- Use sexual innuendos in your conversation
The best way to really seduce a woman during your conversation is to use sexual innuendos. Now I don’t mean you should start talking about how you want to have sex with this woman. Instead you should interject little comments into the conversation about the topic.
For instance, you can joke about how “she wants you”. Or you could mention comments about how she’s hitting on you and trying to pick you up for sexual favors.
If you can combine sexual innuendos with cocky/funny you’ll quickly steer the conversation towards this topic. Then once this happens, you’ll be freely talking about sex, while building physical chemistry.
As you know by now, seduction starts with the first thing you say to a woman. By using these 4 seduction techniques I described in this article, you’ll be able to build instant attraction. Then once this happens, you’ll find that it’s easy to steer the conversation towards becoming intimate.